Orgasms - 'The truth'

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Glamour asked 288 consenting adults the how's and whys, dos and don'ts.

The Multiple myth
1. What's the average number of orgasms you have per sexual encounter?

	Men	Women
none:	1%	7%
one:	53%	53%
two:	35%	26%
more than two:	10%	13%

 

When you gotta O, you gotta O
2. How important is it to you to have an orgasm during sex?

	Men	Women
extremely important:	35%	21%
very important:	43%	45%
mildly important:	14%	29%
not important at all:	2%	5%

 

The joy of giving
3. How important is to you that your partner has an orgasm?

	Men	Women
extremely important:	45%	29%
very important:	43%	56%
mildly important:	7%	13%
not important at all:	5%	2%

 

The minute man myth
4. On average, how long does it take for you to reach climax during sex?

	Men	Women
less than 5 minutes:	5%	14%
5-15 minutes:	35%	46%
15-30 minutes:	42%	28%
more than 30 minutes:	17%	8%

 

Simultaneous satisfaction: dream or reality?
5. How often do you have a simultaneous orgasm with your partner?

	Men	Women
always:	3%	4%
frequently:	29%	20%
sometimes:	53%	51%
never:	13%	24%

 

Who's more generous sexually: you or him?
6. You're happy, but your partner hasn't climaxed yet. How do you feel about riding along to the end of the line?

	Men	Women
happy to oblige:	84%	90%
I'd rather not:	16%	10%

 

Long-term lust news
7. Does orgasmic compatibility with your partner increase or decrease over time?

	Men	Women
increases:	66%	66%
decreases:	9%	8%
stays the same:	25%	26%

 

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assessment...

If you're not a cum-again porn star in the bedroom, take heart, you're normal: its one O a night for more than 50 per cent of the survey's respondents. And as for the myth of the multi orgasmic female, it appears to be just that.

Men were more likely than women to say they usually come twice, though the numbers begin to even out among the small percentage who enjoy more than two. The other O area where men and women differ is that women are five times more likely to say they never usually cum during intercourse.

“I can have an orgasm alone, but never with a lover. “It just doesn't happen for me, and I don't know why.” So says Kim, 24.

If you're having trouble hitting the target with a lover, don't worry. A lot of women don't find it easy to orgasm this way.

Truly amazing orgasmic discovery alert:
more men than women think their partner's climax is extremely important.

Men are quicker on the trigger, right? Wrong!
The results found that 60% of women and just 40% of guys say they orgasm in under 15 minutes.

It seems that men’s bedroom routine has come a long way since the days when the guy said: ‘Hey, baby lets go to bed,’ got erect, penetrated (even though his partner was barely ready), ejaculated, rolled over and went to sleep.

Men also say that satisfying their lover first stops them sweating over whether they'll be able to please her... common courtesy - ladies first is the order of the day.

Great news:
men and women are both hugely optimistic about how lust changes over-time - sexual synchronicity, they agree, just grows and grows. Seems the longer a couple stay together, the more they'll be screaming, “Oh, yes!”.

Ladies:
The pressure to be the perfect sexual partner can make a man paranoid... he may act as if he knows everything, but he could be hiding his insecurity - train him, discreetly, by moving his hand in the right direction, subtly taking the lead and praising him when he gets it right.

Guys:
try to make lovemaking a slow, prolonged experience, making foreplay as enjoyable as intercourse itself.

MORE INFORMATION AND HELP
the British Association of Sexual and Relationship Therapy: 020 8543 2707
Family Planning Association: 0845 310 12334
the Impotence Association: 020 8767 7791
Relate: 01788 573241 www.relate.org.uk

 

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